One of the challenges of even the strongest long-term relationship is the difficulty in keeping things fresh and new. We must all learn how to get out of the patterns that we create so that we can explore new sides of life together. It allows us to move through fast-paced lives without having to make every little decision on a daily basis. If we did not have good patterns in our lives we would have to focus on every little thing like how to take a shower, or how to brush our teeth.
Being able to have methods in place so that life is much more effective is good for everything that we must full-bearded chaps. The one thing that we should always remember is that in order to truly enjoy our spouse we must take the time to see them outside of what we already know of them and see them in a new light. Once we've moved beyond the adolescent and young adult experimentation phase, we tend to fall into the rut of wearing our hair a certain way, how we put on our makeup, the kind of television shows we watch, the choice of foods we eat, and the lifestyle we pursue.
Spend part of the date being a little distant. Look through her at times, without being rude or impolite. Make them pursue you and be willing to be caught.
So it is only natural that our relationships will become bound in pattern. It just seems that the things that make our relationships warm and inviting can also make our relationships passion killers. So we must find ways to marry the patterns with spontaneity as we seek love in our relationships. We love being around our spouse and the joy that they bring into our heart is undeniable. But we can also get a little to comfortable with them so that we don't see how special they are to us. We must continue to remember how they are so special to us.
It's essential to remember that the love quotes that we all read must be an inspiration and not a judgment. Sure, everyone of us wants a love like that which is in the quotes about love. But that love is one which is acquired and not just handed to us.
Mix things up by doing the least expected things. Do something silly like both ordering from the kids menu at a restaurant or taking your mate to a G rated movie. Outbid her assumptions at every step.
It is always more easy for the gals to take on a different look with their hair simply because their are more styles available to them. And some guys do not feel comfortable wearing wigs so you might need new ways to switch things up for your mate. A man can temporarily grow a mustache, a beard, or sideburns, and elicit new attention from his surprised wife. The trick is to be novel in what you do. You do not have to find your next fashion statement, just have fun.
The main ingredient in the spice of a relationship is to mix it up and create something interesting. Learning the times to be predictable and the times to be spontaneous is key to making your evenings go off without a hitch. So gauge your mate's mood and adjust accordingly. Playing hide and seek so to speak, will help you not only attract women but keep them consistently attracted. I have found that being spontaneous can be a lot for work so do not think otherwise. He is extremely careful on that rope while walking, neither too fast nor too slow, because either way he falls down. We may keep our mate guessing but it will be no mystery to us. We will know the secret of our passion.